Supporting loving, non-violent relationships

Ahimsa is a Respect-accredited charity working to end domestic abuse. We work with people who cause harm to change their behaviour, while supporting their (ex)partners and families to stay safer. We deliver long-term, trauma-informed interventions for meaningful change. 

How can we help?

If you're concerned about your own behaviour in a relationship, we offer a programme to help you understand it and change it. We can work with any adult who wants to change their abusive behaviour and is ready to engage.

Alongside this, our dedicated Integrated Partner Service offers therapeutic support to partners and ex-partners — a service in its own right, grounded in the values of autonomy, safety and wellbeing.

If you're unsure whether Ahimsa is right for you, please don't hesitate to get in touch. We can talk everything through — and if needed, point you in the right direction.

We work with people of all genders and sexual orientations — in heterosexual, gay, lesbian and transgender relationships, whether the person causing harm is male, female or non-binary.

If you or anyone in your family is at risk of harm right now, please call 999. Ahimsa is not an emergency service.

Working to end domestic abuse since 1990

See how we work

Through our short video, hear from the people at the heart of Ahimsa — a client who completed our programme, a partner who received support, and the practitioners who deliver it.

Plymouth's specialist integrated domestic abuse programme

What makes us distinctive is our integrated model. When someone joins our programme, a dedicated team simultaneously reaches out to support their (ex)partner - working in close communication to manage risk, but keeping each person's work confidential and separate. This creates accountability and safety in a way that working with those causing harm alone cannot achieve.

The Integrated Partner Service has its own identity, its own values - autonomy, safety and wellbeing - and its own therapeutic approach, grounded in the belief that those affected by harmful behaviour deserve dedicated, person-centred support in their own right.

Abuse is a choice. We hold people fully accountable for their behaviour and its impact - and we do that with humanity, honesty and respect. Our work focuses on the present: on identity, emotional regulation, and the capacity to relate differently. Compassion and accountability are not in conflict. Both are essential to real change.

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  • "Since I started Ahimsa a lot has changed. I've learned so much about myself and why I've behaved the way I did and how I've affected ex-partners and children with my violent and abusive behaviour."

    - Ahimsa client

  • "There are not enough words to express the significance of Ahimsa in my life."

    - Ahimsa client

  • "I've learned to love and nurture the good in me. I like myself today and really recommend Ahimsa to anyone who has been living as the abuser in a relationship. Ahimsa has helped me with my life."

    - Ahimsa client

  • "Before I came to Ahimsa I didn't know what feeling vulnerable was and would get angry and attack people, abusively - even violently. The one-to-one sessions before I started group helped me see the build-up of anger before I would explode and kick off. I started to look at the abusive relationships I had been in and situations I had caused to get my own way."

    - Ahimsa client

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Not sure if Ahimsa is right for you? Call us and we'll talk it through — whatever brings you here.